I take no credit for this theme. Most of the hard work was already done. The original work can be found at
http://www.xfce-look.org/content/show.php/Pink+Mac+OS-X+Aero?content=84830&PHPSESSID=932b029

I took it and modified it to give it the kind of look that I wanted my window decorations to have. I thought I'd share it, since thats how I got mine.

It is released under GPL, as is the original that I got from my source.